First and foremost, Social media has really changed the modest way we used to handle relationships and not always for the better.
Bragging about your relationship on social media, we get the impulse.
There’s nothing better than being in love and you really have chills about your partner, you certainly want to share those feelings with friends and the world .
There are things you share with your partner that the world must not have a clue about . Do not post what happens between the sheet.
Also keeping personal details about your partner to oneself is a key to a great , long lasting relationship ever.
Why? You might think it’s 'cute'! Save that mushy stuff for each other . You love your romantic interest but the world doesn’t necessarily want to know your secret pet names “Cupcake” “Bunny”
Nevertheless, it’s never a good advice to keep inappropriate pictures or videos of your partner on the internet. People are weird about what they consider 'unflattering' when it comes to images of themselves.
Moreover, there’s one thing that really makes one loose a great respect before his or her peers and it’s really a disgusting attitude that needs not to be encouraged i.e “Stop trying to win points in your lovers spat”
When you make your fight public, you’re undermining your ability to make up forcibly. This is because relatives and friends will unquestionably take your side.
Such stuffs should be privatized, because once you work your differences out, your partner or yourself will be a laughingstock but if you keep it on a matured scale, you will be cock-a-hoop you didn’t publicize with your beef .
In addition, naturally , no one wants to see your tongue wrestling selfies. Believe me on this, trust nobody, I mean “Nobody”.
There are (2) two reasons of keeping your smooches off the media because your practically have nothing to prove.
In our era, it’s becoming a tradition of partners flaunting pictures of pricey presents . Showing those expensive gifts given to you by your lover off on the media is a good bad mistake ever. Class bitterness is a real and stiff force on our culture.
Although if you do not make your peers Hayes you, you might simply be making them feel horrible that they can’t present such fancy gifts and presents .
Last but not the least , do not just post looking for validation as to if you are going to be great couples or if you look better together.
The question is , are you happy in your relationship? If so, why then do you need approval of your friends before it’s fully confirmed that your man or man is rightfully yours?
When one constantly post positive pictures or videos or update their status with a positive vibe, it can affects your relationship in a negative way because you only post them for people to approve.
Finally, the inside scoop on the breakdown of one’s relationship doesn’t need to go public. This is because breaking up can make one loose focus, sense of reasoning and indeed it’s one of the darkest moment in life.
If one can keep at least a thin strand of ego tethered to reality best to combat the impulse to vent in social media.
Source: Mandy Woods
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