It is a common scenario to meet a guy, fall in love and everything begins to go in the right path.
The long phone calls, frequently texting and stocking becomes the order of the day but just when the intense connection and budding relationship takes a different level, everything goes down the drain.
Here are five common relatable reasons men tend to lose interest in a relationship .
Efforts In The Relationship Does Not Match: Efforts in a relationship is where both lovers try to make each other feel special and loved. It becomes tiresome when it becomes a burden on only the guy to do the calling, texting among other things. If he does his best and you don’t, it won’t be long before he starts to get distant and cold towards you.
Efforts in a relationship do not have to be in the same value, it just has to be significantly enough to count on. Flowers will fade away, jewelry won’t be interesting forever, and expensive dinners will stop being fun. But the little details will stay. If not, the relationship will look pretty one-sided and resentment will start to build. Making an effort in a relationship is the only way for it to be healthy.
Lack Of Support
A supportive relationship is a one which brings mutual benefits to both parties as they help each other on how to cope with tough times and maximize the good times. You should always let your man know that you are riding for him and that you always got his back especially if he is the one who is obviously doing his best to do the right thing for you. If your words and actions rarely show support or any interest in the things he holds dear, he might start to think that you really don’t care about him.
Cheating
According to Merriam-Webster Dictionary, cheating is the act or an instance of fraudulently deceiving. It is also known as deception. Cheating can be defined as being emotionally or sexually unfaithful to your partner who you are in a closed relationship with. Men are notorious for finding it difficult to deal with a woman who cheats on them. No one does, but men have notoriety for being fore intolerant to it. That’s quite ironic, though as women actually tend to forgive cheating from men a lot
Difference In Sex Drive
If the sex drive between a guy and his girlfriend is vast, it will affect the relationship adversely and it won’t be long before the man gets fed up. If the woman has higher sex drive, or if he has a higher sex drive, there is going to be something terribly wrong at some point in the relationship. This is why is better to always have that conversation about sexual compatibility early enough.
Disrespect
To disrespect is lack special regard or respect for someone. Some examples or behaviors of disrespectfulness in a relationship include nagging, criticism, stonewalling, lying, put downs, ,pressuring the other, disloyalty and threats ton end the relationship. Nothing makes people fed up more than constant disrespect. Being belittled, being made to feel like nothing, having your importance questioned and being made to feel like your presence is not needed or Important.
Story by: Precious Hlordzie
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